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Monday, April 30, 2012

Reminders.........the Simplicity and Sweetness of Life

Today, a reminder of why we migrated south to this tropical paradise known as Florida.  Although the early morning, just cool enough, allowing the sweet citrus vapors to drift through open windows, the partly cloudy skies would soon give way to a sweet Mother Mary Novena Blue,  a brilliance that radiates images back to the earth so breathtakingly striking, one yearns for more!  With stiff breezes bordering all out windy, one forgets that this land is tropical rain forest HOT for much of the late spring, summer and early fall seasons of the year.

This southern sky, with it's infinite expanse, tells a story.  Today's clouds, so descriptive, would have allowed a soft blanket in the grass on which a body could observe these tremendous marshmallow like puffs floating quickly by, had it not been the thought of the multitudes of ants at ground level.  Nice thought, however, a walk at the edge of the preserve or seashore will have the suffice.

As the afternoon sun begins its descent toward the western horizon, the stiff warm breezes continuing, we decide, sitting outside amongst the gorgeous display of fragrant gardenias, majestic royal purple petunias, perfectly showcased by the emerald green and white flowing spider plants cascading downward, would be a great ending to a near picture perfect day in the outdoors.

Rehashing the events of our day, sipping icy cold sweet green teas, we are treated to not one or two but three of Mother Nature's elusive and endangered  raptors in flight.  The swallow-tailed kite only makes its appearance mid-March through mid-May, it's striking black and white plumage so vivid against the tropical setting sun.  As we watched these birds in flight, realizing how rarely we are treated to their company, we must learn more about our southern feathered friends.  Built for speed, these birds only number around three to four thousand, will soon be leaving for their winter feeding grounds, some as far south as Brazil.

A quick search of the Internet reveals, the Audobon Society tracks these graceful birds of prey as they cross-cross the southern skies, from their breeding homes in the southeast to their winters in South America.  Drops in their numbers caused by disappearing wetlands, pesticides and sport shooting, the Society's plea for help tracking these majestic and distinguished looking hunters would be our pleasure and a sincere a heartfelt thanks and commitment to our environment and those whose time, patience and diligence will insure these and all the creatures that share this planet, will continue to flourish.

Sunday, April 29, 2012

Deja vu...Oh yes...Been There done That!

Deja vu, the illusion of having previously experiences something being encountered for the first time.  Its origin is French, its meaning, literally already seen.  Deja vu becoming the go to word around 1900-05.  Always interested in word origins, my mind tells me time to check it out. With a tad bit of research, my findings, interesting yet just a bit more of useless info added to my already overcrowded brain. Although I do not consider myself a hoarder, my brain signals, IT IS!

Sounding much like a hauntingly, even sensually romantic question, "Mon cherie, croyez-vous en déjà vue?"would be appropriate if whispered softly in a passionate moment.  Yet translate that beautiful phrase to English, "My love do you believe in the already seen?" Not quite the same effect, you might as well just quip, "Hey baby have ya been there, done that?"

That bit of useless trivia behind us, I decided to search further, our friend deja vu also has a scientific name; Promnesia.  This term, describes the phenomenon of deja vu, coming from Modern Latin, who I might add, derived it from the Greeks mean, pro-"before" plus mnesia-"memory." Keeping that thought, let's look at the origins of amnesia.  This little word became vogue around 1780-90 (can't remember exactly!), the Neo-Latin tongues stole it from the Greeks (again) and is a variant of the word amnestia meaning "oblivion".  My mind in a tizzy, delving deeper into this mystery of words, amnestia, for the record was not in the dictionary or at least not mine. Ironically, perhaps they forgot it!  Deciding to use word search, amnestia, is mentioned.  2437 Amnestia is a main belt asteroid and was discovered on September 14, 1942 by, can't seem to remember, in the city of Turku on the southwest coast of Finland at the mouth of the Aura River, in the region of Finland Proper. Turku is believed to have been first settled around the 13th century, (they can't remember either) and the predominant language spoken is Swedish! They seem to have forgotten they are in FINLAND!

With all this info meaning absolutely nothing, deja vu still intrigues me.  Having had moments of " Mon cherie, croyez-vous en déjà vue?" okay "been there done that!"  words intrigue me.  How we say them, what we insinuate, what is perceived, everyone processes words and phrases, differently. We perceive certain languages to ooze of sensuality, French, Italian and Spanish, the first to come to mind.  When spoken fluently, these words of passion are beautiful, yet it is the thinkers, the free-spirited, the brain hoarders that questions everything and accept nothing as status quo that truly intrigues us all. 

Wednesday, April 18, 2012

Oh No the Big 60!

Five and a half hours and counting, to the birthday, another milestone so they tell me.  A barrage of the usual questions have begun to appear, some pretty standard, others, let's just say,"not so much!"   I prefer Mark Twain's comment regarding the aging process, "wrinkles should merely indicate where smiles have been!" All that aside, I don't really think of age as a number, instead, it's how you feel.  For the most part pretty good!  The usual aches and pains, no more than the previous fifteen years of my life.  Warmer weather has been a tremendous help on the old bones.  Things have a tendency to work much better when they are warm versus all scrunched up under an afghan trying to keep warm.

Social media a great way to say Happy Birthday and post all the cutesy little messages.  Those that have passed this way before me are the first to send their condolences, "oh  no the BIG 60!" "Wow, when you gonna collect Social Security?" Bodily functions seem to warrant conversation space as well!  Please spare me, everyone is well aware of the fact that when you drink and eat, you pee and poop, so goes the natural cycle of the body. So what does bother me?  Gravity! Oh bugger, I should live on the moon.  Weighing next to nothing, no pressure on the bones and perky body parts, NICE!

Looking forward, I have no plans to retire.  If I were to, I would merely be recycling myself.  My mind, always in a continuous state of perpetual motion,  constantly reminding and nagging the body, "you G-damn wimp, keep up!"  My brain was probably a reject from a Marine drill instructor, my body doesn't listen to ME either!

Occasionally, I look back, time has passed at warp speed, my children in the infancy stages of middle age, yet they will always be the kids.  Pride and admiration for my kids rush forth, swelling within my heart.  Some near others far, they will always be my kids.  I will worry, I will call, offer advice when asked, allow the memories tucked neatly away to bring smiles that warm me to the very core and I will look forward to new exciting ways of living the life that continues to beckon and impress me.  Never having been one to wallow, it is a senseless waste of time.  Life is all about can do and will do.  So instead of "when ya gonna retire?" I prefer, "What ya gonna be when you grow up?"  I don't really know but I'll let you know when I get there!

Sunday, April 8, 2012

Relaxing Within

Fairfield, Iowa is billed as the safest, greenest and happiest town in America.  Transcendental Meditation being the reason, yet before we jump to conclusions and pass judgment, we need to look beyond only what we see no farther than the end of our nose.  On a recent broadcast of Oprah, the Next Chapter, we were introduced the citizens of this small town and their extraordinary way of life.  For those that view this lifestyle as the following of a certain ethnic or religious group, I say poo-poo to you.  If one's mind, body and soul are aligned, it must truly be a wonderful experience.  How often we are pulled in a multitude of directions, worrying needlessly and wishing the mind would stop launching hurdles every time we round the next corner. A pure dream come true to be able to wind down, sort things out and proceed with a feeling of inner well-being that would shine forth in our ever so cluttered material world.

Elizabeth Gilbert's book, Eat Pray Love, relates her struggle to become just such a person.  In a marriage of one-sided happiest she sets forth on a mission to truly search her soul and find out is there is such a thing as true inner peace.  I adore this woman's determination and what an opportunity,  travelling the world, experiencing cultures most just read about, what a lucky and fortunate woman.

In past years my family always asked, "Mom what do you want for your birthday?"  Pondering a bit, I would reply, "a simple Happy Birthday and a hug!"  Pressured for a more materialistic answer, my response was always. "there is nothing I need, but if you must, I would like a day off.  Truly a day off, no decision making, no mediating, no NOTHING! (double negative but it drives the point home.)  The caveat being, when the day is finished, the next always arriving, do not tell me of the previous day's problems, issues or anything else, unless of course it is a major life threatening issue.  For the record, never having received this gift, the hug and poignant Happy Birthday message was and always will be lovingly exquisite.

Questions always remained unanswered. "what would you do with such a day, had your wish been granted? Simply put, "relaxing from within, processing thoughts and breathing in my surroundings,  perhaps a personal transcendental meditation!"